Finding your soulmate .. my tips for 'Soul Mate Sunday'

What would you do if you realised the person you most desired and admired lived only a few blocks away?
How could that be? you wonder...
You've never crossed paths before... never randomly bumped into each other in a local shop- or had a chance to wave at them from across the road.. But there you have it - right under your nose all along..

Life is nothing if not full of surprises.
Finding a soul mate can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack - yet it's possible that your soul mate has already been chosen for you.. and the time without them is just the right amount of time you need to prepare.

I believe that to truly have a fulfilling relationship there are various steps that need to be taken.. so I'd thought I'd share those with you today on what I've dubbed 'Soul Mate Sunday'

Step 1
Be the Best person that you can be.. the absolute best version of yourself-grow - learn more - do more.
This will inevitably bring you in to contact with more people who think like you... and are as passionate about you - as you are..
It may sound cliche to say 'love yourself' - 'know yourself'.. but really .. if you don't who else can?

Step 2
Write a list.
List all the qualities you look for in your 'perfect' partner. Don't write what you don't want - only what you do..
Anything goes - put it all down - tall? short? fat? dark? black hair - bald head fun - good listener - smart - funny- whatever does it for you - put it down - put it out there - into the ethos - once you done that- put it away - be open - and remember your soulmate may not be what you expect at all..

Step 3
Keep busy
Yep that's it - don't think - just do - actions speak louder than words never forget that

Step 4
Be patient
Things don't necessary happen immediately or when you want them to. They may - they may not. Have faith - know that it will.. just keep working on Step 1

Step 4
Forget the list!..
You wrote it - so now you can forget it. don't refer back to it like some mantra.. it's already in the ethos...believe

Step 5
De clutter. Make space in your life for this person as they're on their way. Clear out the wardrobe- have a spring clean at home - sweep the yard - paint the fence. Know how this person will fit into your life

Step 6
Listen not to the 'haters' or 'doubters' - 'bitchy women' or 'grumpy men'. Never look at anyone elses relationship and wish for what they have. You don't know what goes on behind closed doors...
Don't allow any negative thought or imagery to distract you. You know what you want.

Step 7
Be prepared. Do some research - read a few books. Increase your 'Love' knowledge

Step 8
As Step 7 ( but of a more intimate nature... if you know what I mean!! ;-)
yep..being lousy in that department 'aint' big ( pardon the pun!) and it aint clever.. think you know?.. check again :-)If it's worth doing.. it's worth doing well..

Step 9
Never forget to be beautiful inside and out

Step 10
How wonderful! - Your soul mate has arrived! Now show your love - celebrate your love.. be passionate - only say I love you when you mean it and...never forget to Smilex -