To tell someone you love them?..
Or for them to say it to you?
A week?, two?..
A month.. A year?
A day?
That was the thought/question posed to me by a friend this evening
When a man tells a woman he loves her after knowing her a few short weeks..
Is it a ploy?
Play
Misuse of a word?
I asked her how she felt..
Uneasy.. was the reply or something to that effect
Surely that's the answer.. I thought
I don't think there's a rule.. it's different for, with,and between, different people
I know for me if it isn't true.. i'd prefer not to hear it..at the very least I'd take it with a pinch of salt perhaps
It's okay to say 'thanks' I guess.. as time will tell
If it's truth, she will know.. even without a word spoken
hey..I don't know.. I'll sleep on it
Nice.
ReplyDeleteI can only speak on this from personal experience. I tend to fall in love quickly, but out of fear its too early or rejection, I will just show that I love her, and perceived her actions. If she behaves liked someone who is in love with me, I will tell her.
I once had a girlfriend who cut a family vacation short and flew back early, from Australia just to spend my birthday with me. I knew that was love.
I love quickly too. It's nice.
DeleteI think the only rule is: listen to your intuition. If she's uneasy, her intuition is telling her to take things slow.
ReplyDeletegut feeling.. wise to listen to it.
DeleteI was here last night trying to leave a comment but my computer was acting up so I am back again. (I am not stalking you, honest!)
ReplyDeleteMy husband I confessed our love after about a week and a half. It took us another 4 years to get married and another year after that to get married. We definitely waited for the euphoria to pass but yes, we fell in love very quickly.
that's sweet Birdie :)
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