Still....why are relationships so hard?.
In my mind ( and I truly believe this) they should be the easiest things in the world. Boy meets girl.. boy and girl get along.. boy and girl fall in love.. boy and girl get married and live happily ever after ( dealing... like adults.. with the challenges that come their way)
Now... why is that so hard?
Exactly... it's not...
I honestly think most people would want it that way. It becomes difficult when either the love isn't true, or there is a lack of maturity.. personal past pain, inner anger, a lack of honesty... and I'm sure we can add much more to the list...
Fundamentally though, most of us will have a 'blue print' of the type of man or woman we'd like to be with.. or feel we would be happy with...and want to share our lives with.
Often we stray from that path because we're not meeting anyone like that... and we decide to make to do with ...'as close to' ...
I can understand that... people want companionship.
Other times... we naturally change or grow as people... and our desires... and requirements change (we begin to see life differently)
Ironically, it would seem that the only problem with relationships... is the people in them
The template itself... is flawless...
But I would say to anyone that even if they are unable to see or believe it's possible...( to acquire the relationship they've 'dreamed' of) doesn't mean it can't be done
It can be whatever you want it to be