Sunday, 3 March 2013

Sunshine Sunshine

Through my windows bright and glorious
You're my sunshine
Soulfull Sunday
Soulmate Sunday
Silent Sunday
I'm feeling quiet today
Thoughtful.

Human Rights Act

If reports are true - why does David Cameron our current P.M - and others - want to abolish the Human Rights Act?

Articles
Prohibition of torture
Prohibition of slavery and forced labour
Right to liberty and security
Right to a fair trial
No punishment without law
Right to respect for private and family life
Freedom of thought, conscience and religion
Freedom of expression
Freedom of assembly and association
Right to marry
Prohibition of discrimination
Restrictions on political activity of aliens
Prohibition of abuse of rights
Limitation on use of restrictions on rights
Protection of property
Right to education
Right to free elections

Saturday, 2 March 2013

Men shouldn't hit women.. if they want to fight...

Maybe they should sign up..and go to war.

Out and about, I thought about domestic violence.. partly based on a conversation I had recently.
I've found that the reaction towards domestic violence perpetrated by men on women, is often met with a mixed reaction among men, but with women, just the thought of it usually precedes one simple word. " Bastard".
Whenever the topic has come up with men, some have said things like..
'Well you know what some women are like..'
'She must have asked for it..'
'Probably up in his face..' and on and on
To be fair, some have said.. 'not a real man' .. etc.

Power and sex are closely linked, and one is often used to obtain the other.
A little like power and war

My thoughts had me trying to remove the gender aspect. 'Violence is violence' I said to myself. Whether it be male on male, male on female, female on male, or female on female.
Yet, somehow. I have not yet been able to do so.
Is it the blatant abuse of love?.. abuse of masculine dominance?.. the shield of patriarchal cultures, the disgraceful denials and shedding of responsibility, when fault is placed soley on the woman.
Or am I buying into the notion of the weaker sex?. No, I don't think so.
I don't think so, because I don't think that women are the 'weaker sex' at all.( If there is even such a thing ) They may display more emotion, but that does not negate strength.
There is something strikingly different in my eyes when a man beats his wife or girlfriend, than in those other scenarios .. something feels different, I just can't yet put my finger on what that thing is.. yet.

Suit and Tie - J.T

Not so keen on the intro... I think the Jay Z bit slows it right up as well, after which it never restores itself back into full swing, but the overall song I got into.
Nai said she finds it a bit boring. "I didn't like it" she says .. "but you might!"
Reminiscent of John Legend

Friday, 1 March 2013

Mirror @ Brits with Justin T

Took ages for me to find JTs Brits performance.
But here it is.
Lovely stage and lighting as well
A stage show with full band, always has that extra something special for me.
I like Justin, I've never been what you'd call a big fan or anything, although I've tended to buy his music over the years..but I do like this.
Caught me at the right time I guess.
Despite the fact that on the night I was mesmerized by the sight of that guys massive horn, Its not over the top, it's just cool.

A week through the eyes of Dawna ( who really should stop talking in the 3rd person)

Wow. Is it really the 1st of March already?!?
Yes it is, which can only mean one thing ( it can mean anything really but stay with me..) It's almost Spring!!.
Yes Spring, the season of new beginnings, and a warmer climate.

Anyway. What did I learn this week?.
Patience. I need to learn to practice more patience.
That, and to fret less.
Not to worry so much when things don't go according to plan. It's okay... It's okay missy.

I also learnt ( or was reminded ) that I really do like having my own way. Borderline spoilt perhaps? I don't know what that's about (my family may disagree) but again.. It's okay .. not to have ones own way all of the time. But before you start calling me names like.. 'silly spoilt cow' or whatever.. hold your fire..

It's not a selfish kind of spoilt really it isn't. I like to do my best to help others when I can, and that's when I tend to find I can be eager the most.
The selfish part I guess ( if there is one) is the feeling of disappointment I feel when I'm not at my best. I'm perhaps a closet perfectionist.. not typical by any means.. but it lurks... it lurks.
That's the ego...right?
Who knew.
So what else did I learn? ( Other that the fact that potatoes wedges splashed with malt vinegar and baked beans tastes great on a Friday eve?).. well...
That we all have a story to tell.

I had a conversation a few days ago that left me feeling a little odd. It stocked my emotions, although not at the time. I wont go into detail, other than to say it can be tough for some growing up.
Yet, despite dire experiences, they get on with it.. somehow.
People often share things with me, and whilst I am honoured they feel comfortable to do so, I'm sometimes left wondering why, or rather, what, I can do with the information.
I suppose I learn from it, and maybe that's all that's supposed to happen. Maybe these tales teach me compassion. Perhaps when I sway into egotism, I'm brought back by these tales, which are sobering and humbling.
So I'm grateful.
I also learnt (or was reminded) that there must be a reason why I am drawn to certain things, or feel compelled (almost) to do certain things. I'm trying to follow my gut more, be more trusting, both towards others, and towards myself. It's work in progress.. A part of me is so quiet and shy, definitely more introvert than extrovert, yet I keep getting drawn out of that position for some reason.

I retreat when I'm at home though..( like most of us) can muse over things on my blog, and allow myself to embrace that side of me.( Bloomin' nora...Ti tends to switch over the TV when he thinks I'm unaware, then gets bored - goes upstairs, and leaves Homer Simpson yapping in my ears... the remote/s are now on the other side of the room and I can barely be arsed to get up and turn it over or off.. ee-rritaating!!!!)
Anyway.. patience Jargo..this sweet Friday, it's time to unwind, a weekend to get my brain into gear, watch Mr X doc, and give some energy to work pending assignment.
Enjoy your Friday

The life of Malcolm X - A documentary

Interviews with family members and academics, alongside original footage of Malcom himself. Malcom has been described as a controversial figure, and very militant, and as a result some may find his words, and views offensive. History can be like that. Set into historical context from what I have seen (as I will have to view in full tonight) it's quite in depth, and similar in style, to the documentary on Marcus Garvey